The Connection Crisis: Decades of Research on Friendship and Belonging with Dr. Niobe Way, PhD Part II

Decades of data reveal a decline in our collective capacity to see other people’s perspectives. This signals a connection crisis that stretches across generations. During this friendship recession, we live in a socially starved society where indifference is considered fashionable. This trend has devolved into a social health crisis, fueling a surge in adolescent mental health issues. Ignoring our inherent emotional vulnerability, boys are taught to suppress their feelings and that feelings are invaluable and weak.

To discuss the growing connection crisis, Harvesting Happiness Podcast host Lisa Cypers Kamen welcomes author and developmental psychologist, Dr. Niobe Way, PhD.

Niobe shares her unique insights about how our culture can unravel the damage and foster our ability to be emotionally sensitive and emotionally regulated, so that we may move forward into a more caring society.

Original Air Date Wednesday, May 20, 2026

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Dr. Niobe Way, PhD, is a developmental psychologist whose pioneering research on adolescent social and emotional development reveals how cultural ideologies shape human connection in the U.S. and China. Through initiatives like the Project for the Advancement of our Common Humanity (PACH), the Listening with Curiosity Project, and the Science of Human Connection Lab, she works to counter the “crisis of connection” by cultivating relational intelligence in schools and communities. Her award-winning work has transformed the understanding of boys’ friendships, inspired major media coverage, and informed national psychological guidelines. Her latest book is Rebels with a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves, and Our Culture.

Book: Rebels with a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves, and Our Culture

Dr. Niobe Way, PhD—Dr. Niobe Way Research:

Sifting through the data behind the crisis of connection. {2:53}
Boys’ friendships research and Dr. Niobe Way’s research findings. {16:04}
The loneliness epidemic and social isolation are rampant in the US. {20:27}

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“The crisis of connection has permeated into society, and the media, and what is considered acceptable behavior. It's kind of a free-for-all.” @LisaKamen on @HHTalkRadio Share on X “Boys and young men start feeling the pressure to disconnect from their feelings, disconnect from each other, and disconnect from what they want and need the most, which is deep, meaningful relationships.” Dr. Niobe Way on @HHTalkRadio Share on X “Hard and soft are just two halves of our humanity.” Dr. Niobe Way, PhD on @HHTalkRadio Share on X “I think the crisis of connection is everyone, but boys are the ones whoare ringing the alarm the loudest because their actions are louder.” Dr.Niobe Way on @HHTalkRadio Share on X

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